40 Messy Quotes: Finding Grace in the Chaos
When life gets overwhelming and everything seems out of place, finding the right words can be just as chaotic.
That’s why we’ve gathered 40 messy quotes that capture the essence of life’s beautiful disarray.
Whether you need a little encouragement to embrace the chaos or just a reminder that imperfection is part of the human experience, this collection has something for you.
Feel free to explore and pick the quotes that resonate most with your messy, marvelous life.
Messy Quotes
“Life is messy. That’s how we’re made. So, you can waste your life drawing lines or you can live your life crossing them.” – Shonda Rhimes
“Nothing is perfect. Life is messy. Relationships are complex. Outcomes are uncertain. People are irrational.” – Hugh Mackay
“I don’t have to be perfect. All I have to do is show up and enjoy the messy, imperfect and beautiful journey of my life.” – Kerry Washington
“Life is so messy that the temptation to straighten it up is very strong. And the results always illusory.” – Anna Quindlen
“You are not a mess. You are a feely person in a messy world.” – Glennon Melton
“Success is messy. But so is life. Deal with it. Poverty is messier.” – James Arthur Ray
“Real life is messy, and drama is a shaped version of real life.” – Simon Beaufoy
“The fullness of life is incubated in its messy places.” – Amy Dickinson
“Emotion is messy, contradictory… and true.” – Nigella Lawson
“A messy house is a must – it separates your true friends from other friends. Real friends are there to visit you not your house!” – Jennifer Wilson
“You need messiness and magic, serendipity and insanity. Creativity comes from time off, and time out.” – Timothy Egan
“There is no control and perfection is arrogant. Practice messiness, letting go, and doing things badly.” – Sark
“I embrace the messiness of life. I find it so beautiful actually.” – Brad Pitt
“People are messy; therefore, relationships will be messy. Don’t be surprised by messiness.” – Timothy Keller
“The messiness of experience, that may be what we mean by life.” – Daniel J. Boorstin
“Families are messy. Immortal families are eternally messy. Sometimes the best we can do is to remind each other that we’re related for better or for worse…and try to keep the maiming and killing to a minimum.” – Rick Riordan
“What are you going to do? Everything, is my guess. It will be a little messy, but embrace the mess. It will be complicated, but rejoice in the complications.” – Nora Ephron
“This was the boy I loved. A little bit messy. A little bit ruined. A beautiful disaster. Just like me.” – Michelle Hodkin
“In the midst of chaos, there is also opportunity.” – Sun Tzu
“Out of clutter, find simplicity. From discord, find harmony. In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.” – Albert Einstein
“The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance.” – Alan Watts
“Chaos is what we’ve lost touch with. This is why it is given a bad name. It is feared by those who want things safe, permanent, and predictable. But if we look into chaos, we find it fascinating.” – Pema Chödrön
“Chaos often breeds life, when order breeds habit.” – Henry Adams
“You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star.” – Friedrich Nietzsche
“Chaos is the score upon which reality is written.” – Henry Miller
“Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don’t resist them; that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.” – Lao Tzu
“From chaos comes clarity.” – Travis Bradberry
“Sometimes you have to embrace the chaos to find the calm.” – Unknown
“The only way to do great work is to love what you do, and the only way to be good at what you do is to be messy with it.” – Unknown
“The messiness of life is what makes it so precious, for when it’s untidy and unpredictable, we can lean on one another and trust that we will make it through together.”
“Learning to accept the messiness of the world we live in is one of the hardest lessons in life.” – Donna Lynn Hope
“Chaos and messiness are our teacher; they let us know what we need to work on.”
“It’s the messy, impossible, arrogant dreamer in you that will solve the problems we face today.”
“Living life is about accepting its messiness and not getting yourself uptight over things you can’t control.”
“A clutter-free life is not really a life at all; a certain amount of mess is necessary to breed creativity.”
“It’s the messy things that take up your mind, sometimes the mess that needs to be sorted.” – J.M. Richards
“The beauty of messiness lies not only in its beauty, but also in the impermanence of things and our interconnection to one another.”
“Be comfortable with the messiness; realize that you have the power to clean up your mess and create something beautiful out of it.”
“My creativity is a messy process; sometimes the simplest ideas take a lifetime to form.”
“You must also learn to accept and feel comfortable with the messiness and imperfection in life; learn to let it nourish you.”